Calvin Cook and Mary Neil were both born around 1830 in Morris County, New Jersey. They were married in the 1840s (different records exist- we'll save that for another post). I know little about Mary Neil's parentage, but the Cooks were a Morris County fixture for generations before Calvin's arrival.
I combed through area cemeteries and burial grounds, including the burial place of Calvin's parents, Stephen Cook and Elizabeth Vanderhoof, at the aptly named Cook Cemetery, now engulfed by the Rockaway River Country Club.
Locating a large cemetery plot is a great way to find out names and dates of deaths, making it easier to locate their death certificates. Depending on which is easier and more accessible to you, you can aim to locate the death certificate or the cemetery first. I actually had Calvin Cook's death certificate and obituary. He died in 1889 and burial was "at Dover." Where in Dover? That was my issue.
|Location of burial of Calvin Cook, died 1889, on his death certificate.|
New Jersey Department of Health
Two official cemeteries exist in Dover, Morris County, New Jersey: Locust Hill and Orchard Street. I visited both. Orchard Street Cemetery has no office on site. I walked around, but saw no Cook graves. Records for Locust Hill do not start until the late 1890s, so there was no record of Calvin Cook and no matching record for Mary.
The Dover Historical Society has a compilation of gravestone transcriptions for Orchard Street Cemetery. No Cooks are listed.
|Gravestone transcriptions by Brianne Kelly-Bly.|
Obtained online through the Dover Historical Society website.
|Children Francis, James, Charles, Margaret, and Catharine are mentioned, but not William.|
1889 Probate papers of Calvin Cook
Hudson County, New Jersey
Obtained online at FamilySearch.org
Someone posted a gravestone for William H Cook, son of Calvin and Mary, 1849-1871. This fit the names and time frame. And the location? Locust Hill Cemetery in Dover.
So back to Locust Hill Cemetery I went, hoping that someone would recognize this stone: white with a fallen cross. I also hoped that Calvin and Mary were buried nearby. The caretaker did recognize the stone- he had lovingly re-cemented the cross many times over the years.
The taller dark stone nearby was for William's parents, Calvin Cook and Mary! Finally I had found them.
Mary died in 1898. This is puzzling because I have already searched for a death certificate for her through the early 1900s. I must return to the Archives at Trenton with this death date in mind.
|Calvin and Mary's daughter, Catherine Cook, wife of Calvin Peck,|
is also buried in this plot. Like the other burials, her death date predates
the cemetery's records.