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| Updated memorial page Emeline B Cook without parents |
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| Sampling of trees at Ancestry that incorrectly attribute Emeline Cook, wife of Joseph Prosser, as a daughter of Stephen Cook and Elizabeth Vanderhoof |
Growing family trees from leaves and branches. Finding lost relatives. Solving family mysteries. Concentrating in New Jersey and New York.
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| Updated memorial page Emeline B Cook without parents |
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| Sampling of trees at Ancestry that incorrectly attribute Emeline Cook, wife of Joseph Prosser, as a daughter of Stephen Cook and Elizabeth Vanderhoof |
While researching Elizabeth Vanderhoof (1799-1878) and her husband, Stephen H Cook (1797-1853), of Morris County, New Jersey, I found that someone made an error at Find A Grave.
Find A Grave is a great resource for viewing gravestones. The inscriptions can contain full names, relationships, dates, and places. The bonus, as well as the problem, is that memorial pages can be linked in relationships. Ancestry.com links hints directly to Find A Grave, making it very easy to align these relationships into family trees.
An extra daughter, Emeline, was attributed to Stephen and Elizabeth at Find A Grave.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave for Stephen H Cook (1797-1853) showing daughter Emeline |
Emeline Cook (1836-1891) was the wife of Joseph S Prosser (1832-1910). They married in Camden County, New Jersey in 1855. They lived in Camden and Gloucester Counties, which is another clue that Emeline may not have been of the Cooks of Morris County.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave for Emeline Cook (1836-1891), wife of Joseph Prosser |
New Jersey death certificates are not online. I can pick up a copy of Emeline's record on my next trip to the Archives. The names of her parents might be provided on this document.
This error may have happened because of the 1850 census. Emeline Cook, age 16, was listed in the household of Stephen Cook in Rockaway, Morris County, New Jersey.
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| 1850 United States Federal Census Rockaway Township, Morris County, New Jersey Household of Stephen Cook Next household is Richard Vanderhoof (1814-1892) and his second wife Elizabeth Cook (1810-1875) |
This Emeline was not a daughter of Stephen, but rather a daughter-in-law. She was Emeline Young (1834-1906), wife of William Henry Cook (1828-1902). A clue is that the household members are listed out of order of age: Henry Cook age 21; Emeline, age 16; Charles age 17. (Lots of information on Charles will be in a future article.)
We have a picture of Emeline Youngs. Her family photo album is preserved at the Denville Museum.
To address the error at Find A Grave, I submitted suggested edits to the memorial manager.
Was Mary Vanderhoof (1801-1853) a daughter of Jacob Vanderhoof (1772-1847) and Ann Hopler (1772-1841) of Morris County, New Jersey?
Yes, according to her gravestone and a published genealogy.
Below is a picture of Mary's gravestone, located behind her parents, in the DeMouth Burial ground in Denville.
| Gravestone of Mary Vanderhoof, died August 31, 1853. DeMouth Burial Ground is located on private residential property. Please be mindful if visiting. |
The inscription is difficult to read today. It appears to be:
In her book Vanderhoof (1991), Louisa Caroline Freeman Hickerson identified Mary as the third child born to Jacob Vanderhoof and Ann Hopler.
| Page of Freeman's book about Mary Vanderhoof. Housed at the Denville Historical Society |
Other than this gravestone and the mention of this gravestone in Ms Hickerson's book, there is no other proof that Mary Vanderhoof existed.
No death record was found for Mary Vanderhoof in the New Jersey ledger books covering 1853, in spite of the precise date on her stone.
Mary remains unidentified in the 1850 census. Both her parents were deceased by this time, so she would have appeared in her own household or in the household of a sibling or other relative.
Ms Hickerson raised three questions after the short blurb about Mary Vanderhoof's gravestone. The issue concerned the surname VanFleet, arising from Jacob Vanderhoof's estate.
Jacob died intestate in 1847. His debts exceeded his assets. There was no money to to distribute to his immediate relatives, which would have provided a listing of his children and/or grandchildren.
Jacob's assets were listed and tallied in 1848. The final line of his assets was "Money collected of Mary Vanfleet 3.00." Below is the image of the accounting that Ms Hickerson wrote about.
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| Accounting of Jacob Vanderhoof, died 1847 in Morris County. "Money collected of Mary Vanfleet 3.00" |
Who was Mary Vanfleet and what was her relation to Jacob Vanderhoof? No information about this Mary VanFleet is provided in Jacob's estate papers, such as her age, residence, or husband, if any.
VanFleet had various alternate spellings, such as VanVleet, VanFliet, VanVliet. Also the "Van" could be removed, resulting in more variations.
There was no shortage of people named Mary VanFleet in the 1840s living near Jacob Vanderhoof.
Below is the image of the marriage record referenced by Ms Hickerson. On September 16, 1826 Mary Vanderhoof married William VanVliet "both of the township of Pequanack." True to most of the marriage records for Morris County, New Jersey in this time period, the names of parents and ages are not provided.
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| "Rockaway 16 Sept AD 1826 I certify that on this Day I married Mr William Van Vliet to Miss Mary Vanderhoof both of the township of Pequanack in the County of Morris & State of New Jersey. Barnabas King Minister of the Gospel." New Jersey. Morris County. Marriages Book C. Viewable online at FamilySearch |
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| 1840 United States Federal Census Pequannock, Morris County, New Jersey |
William VanFleet died November 6, 1853 "near Stan Hope." He was 61 years old. His parents names were Peter and Sarah. He was born in Somerset County.
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| New Jersey. Marriages and Deaths Morris County Volume Z 1848-1867. William Vanfleet died November 6, 1853. |
Mary VanFleet died June 9, 1851 in Morris Township. She was 61 years old. The names of her parents were not given.
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| New Jersey. Marriages and Deaths Morris County Volume Z 1848-1867. Mary VanFleet died June 9, 1851. |
We do not know if this death record is for the same Mary VanFleet mentioned in the estate papers of Jacob Vanderhoof in 1847.
We do not know if this Mary VanFleet was born a Vanderhoof.
We do not know if this Mary VanFleet was married to William VanFleet.
Was Maria Tucker (1807-1879) a daughter of Jacob Vanderhoof (1772-1847) and Ann Hopler (1772-1841)?
In her book Vanderhoof (1991), Louisa Caroline Freeman Hickerson did not list Maria Vanderhoof, wife of Charles Tucker, as one of the children of Jacob and Ann. If she was born around 1807, there was room for this birth between John in 1804 and Charlotte in 1809.
Children of Jacob Vanderhoof and Ann Hopler (with notation that any might be in error and some children may be omitted):
1. Peter (1797-1847) married Rachel Peer (1800-1850)
2. Elizabeth (1799-1878) married Stephen H Cook
(1797-1853)
3. Mary (1801-1853) probably unmarried
4. Hyla (1803-1888) married William Cook (1801-18xx)
5. John (1804-1888) married Sarah Dobbin (1805-1876)
6. Charlotte (1809-1886) married Chilion Cook (1807-1888)
7. Samuel Saron (1811-????) married Eleanor Anderson
(1815-????)
8. Richard Vanderhoof (1814-1892) married Eliza Cook (1810-1875)
and Jane Tunis (1832-1919)
9. Conrad (1817-1874) married Mary Hopler (1823-1903)
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| Proposed daughters of Jacob Vanderhoof and Ann Hopler named Mary or Maria. Example of online tree configuration of this family. |
A prior article discussed Mary Vanderhoof (1822-1861), wife of John K ODell (1824-1898). I determined that she was not a child of Jacob Vanderhoof and Ann Hopler. A future article will discuss Mary Vanderhoof (1800-1853) and Mary VanFleet.
The Vanderhoof family includes multiple women named Mary or Maria in overlapping generations. This article focuses only on Maria Vanderhoof, wife of Charles Tucker, and does not assume that she is the same Mary Vanderhoof who died in 1853 or the Mary Vanderhoof who married a man named VanFleet.
New Jersey did not begin registration of births until 1848, well before Maria was born. A baptismal record would provide the name of her father and probably her mother, but this record has not been identified yet.
Marriage records of the 1820s were created by the religious officiant and filed with the County of Morris. Such records did not usually provide names of parents, but this would at least confirm that Charles Tucker married Maria Vanderhoof and not Maria with another surname. As of this writing, I have not found a marriage record in Morris County in the 1820s for Mary Vanderhoof and Charles Tucker.
Maria's first chronological appearance in a record was the 1850 federal census, the first to list all members of households.
Below are snapshots of Charles, Maria, and their children from the 1850 and 1870 census entries for Rockaway Township. She was 43 in 1850 and 63 in 1870, which is consistent with being born in 1807.
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| 1850 census in Rockaway, Morris County, New Jersey. Charles Tucker and Mary resided with seven children ages 1 through 21. |
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| 1870 census in Rockaway, Morris County, New Jersey. Charles C Tucker and Maria with Sarah J, their youngest child. |
Charles Tucker and Maria were last seen in the 1870 census. I have not found a record of the death of Charles. A gravestone has not surfaced.
Maria was buried at Rockaway Valley United Methodist Church Cemetery in Boonton. Many Vanderhoofs were laid to rest here. Maria's stone gives her date of death as September 13, 1879, age 72 years, 7 months, and 17 days. The calculated date of birth would be January 27, 1807. This date of death does not correspond with an entry in New Jersey's index of deaths. A death certificate would be another chance of seeing the names of her parents. Imaged below is Maria's memorial page on Find A Grave.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave for Maria Vanderhoof Tucker (1807-1879) |
Maria Vanderhoof and Charles Tucker had at least eleven children from 1829 through 1851: Peter Vanderhoof, John, Elias, Mary Etta, George Allen, Charles, Marinda, Helen Elizabeth, Laura A, Agnes, and Sarah Jane. They probably had other children who died early.
To indirectly catch Maria's birth name, we can look at the marriage and death records of her children. I found only one record that identifies Maria, wife of Charles Tucker, as a Vanderhoof. Their son, Elias, died November 25, 1913 at the New Jersey State Hospital in Morris Plains. This is locally known as "Greystone" and still exists today for inpatient treatment of mental illness. The death certificate of Elias Tucker provides his mother's name as Maria Vanderhoof. Below is the image of Elias' death certificate.
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| Death certificate of Elias Tucker died November 25, 1913 in Morris Plains, Morris County, New Jersey (New Jersey State Hospital). Father- Charles C Tucker. Mother- Maria Vanderhoof. Death certificates are not online but can be ordered from the New Jersey State Archives or copied in person. |
Elias Tucker (1833-1913) was one of the older children of Maria and Charles. In 1860 he married Phebe Elizabeth Blanchard. He served in the Civil War.
None of these sources provide the parentage of Maria Vanderhoof. More information is needed to link Maria to any parents.
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| One of the many trees at Ancestry listing children of Jacob Vanderhoof and Ann Hopler |
| Page of Freeman's book about Decker and Vanderhoof marriages. Housed at the Denville Historical Society |
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| "March 19 1822 John Decker, Stony Brook to Deborah Vanderhoof of Rockaway Valley" |
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| "March 19 1822 John Decker, Stony Brook to Deborah Vanderhoof of Rockaway Valley" |
The problem with these marriage records is that additional information is scarce. For example, ages of the parties and names of parents are often not given.
| Gravestones in Rockaway Valley United Methodist Church Cemetery visited on the cold day of November 11, 2025. Deborah Vanderhoof died March 13, 1832 John Decker died September 5, 1877 Rachel Jacobus died November 17, 1866 |
The date of death etched on Deborah's stone is March 13, 1832. I'm no expert on gravestones, but I do not think that her stone was created at the time of her death; therefore, it is prone to inaccuracies. Next to Deborah is her husband, John Decker (1800-1877). Next to John is his second wife, Rachel Jacobus (1796-1866).
--Elizabeth Decker (1822-1897) married Cyrus Dixon (1814-1868)
--Andrew Decker (1827-1906) married Martha Dixon (1830-1919)
--Sarah Louise Decker (1830-19xx) married William Kanouse (1823-1903)
--Catherine Amanda Decker (1835-1915) married Charles Augustus Kincaid (1832-1901).
The year of birth for the youngest child, Catherine, varies in records, but is usually in the early 1830s. The year of birth on her gravestone is 1835. So Catherine's mother, Deborah, died anytime after her birth until her father remarried before the 1850 census. There were no recordings of deaths to the county or State of New Jersey in the 1830s. Either Deborah did not die in 1832 or Catherine was not born in 1835, or Deborah was not her mother.
If you have probate, church, or family Bible records related to Morris County Vanderhoofs, I would welcome hearing from you.
Sometimes two people share similar facts, causing confusion to later generations who try to sort through records to craft accurate family trees.
This happened with two men named Samuel Vanderhoof. Both men were born about 1811 in Morris County, New Jersey. We know they were two different people because they are listed separately in the census and because one relocated to Wisconsin. Family trees and hints at Ancestry intermingle the two individuals as one.
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| 1880 federal census Town of Plymouth, Sheboygan County, Wisconsin. Samuel Vanderhoof, age 72. With wife and children. |
The Samuel Vanderhoof pictured in the 1880 census in Wisconsin married Eleanor Anderson in New Jersey. They moved to Wisconsin in the early 1850s. He is likely a son of Jacob Vanderhoof (1772-1847) and Ann Hopler (1772-1841), though no documentation of this has surfaced yet.
The Samuel Vanderhoof who remained in New Jersey was the son of Cornelius Vanderhoof and maybe Catharine Smith.
New Jersey Samuel Vanderhoof married Julie Ann Vanderhoof in the early 1840s. She was the daughter of Abraham Johannis Vanderhoof (died 1836) and Catharine Kierstede. Julie died between the 1870 census and Samuel's remarriage in 1878. 1876 is her year of death on her gravestone in Rockaway Valley United Methodist Church Cemetery in Boonton, but I have not found a record of her death filed with the Archives. Presumably Samuel and Julie were cousins on their Vanderhoof lines, but I have not determined how at this point in the research.
Samuel and Julie had a daughter who lived to adulthood and had children. She was born around 1842 and used two different given names, Mary and Catherine, which added to the confusion of this branch. On January 1, 1862 in Boonton she married Charles Struble (1840-1926). Mary/Catherine died in 1898.
On August 21, 1878 Samuel Vanderhoof remarried to Sarah Ann Moore (1812-1894) in Rockaway Valley. This was Sarah's third marriage. Her first husband was Samuel Garrison Stires (1815-1869). Her second husband was Washington Stickle (1806-1877).
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| Marriage record Samuel Vanderhooff (Vanderhoof) and Sarah Stickle married August 21, 1878 in Rockaway Valley, Boonton, Morris County, New Jersey. Available on microfilm at the New Jersey State Archives, Trenton. |
According to this marriage record, the parents of Samuel were Cornelius Vanderhoof and Catharine [no surname]. Samuel died February 21, 1886 in Rockaway Valley. His parents on the death certificate were Cornelius Vanderhoof and --- Smith [no given name].
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| Death certificate Samuel Vanderhoff died February 21, 1886 in Rockaway Valley, Boonton, Morris County, New Jersey. Available on microfilm at the New Jersey State Archives, Trenton. |
As I sift through Vanderhoof records, the gains are generation by generation. Records are sparser in the first half of the 1800s. Marriages were recorded in Morris County prior to state-wide registration began in 1848, but names of parents were rare on these early marriage records.
Other articles about Vanderhoofs with the same names, places, and dates:
-Elizabeth Cook married Vanderhoof
-William Vanderhoof (born early 1860s)
In 1926, Frank Vanderhoof, age twenty, died from injuries sustained at this place of work. He was employed by the Pequanoc Soft Rubber Company in Butler, Morris County, New Jersey. (Note: Pequannock is the modern spelling of this township. Variant spellings are seen across records and centuries.) Frank died at Saint Joseph's Hospital in Paterson, Passaic County.
A note for the majority of people who cannot visit the New Jersey State Archives in person: Death certificates from 1904 through 1948 are organized alphabetically by year on microfilm. New Jersey does not publish birth, marriage, and death certificates. An index exists for some of these years. If you can visit the Archives, you can photograph every certificate for a surname of interest. The index provides a name, partial date, and location (maybe city, definitely county). You need to view the actual record of death to see the full date, place, names of parents, place of burial, and all of that other information that the family historian needs to more fully assemble the tree.
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| Index of death certificates New Jersey. Available online through Ancestry or without a paywall at The New Jersey Death Index |
I snapped pictures on my phone of all the death certificates in 1926 for Vanderhoof and variant spellings. The next image after Frank's death certificate was not another death certificate, but rather an elaboration of the cause of Frank's death.
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| Image after Frank's death certificate. Handwritten: "Rupture & hemorrhage caused by applying an 80 lb pressure air hose to rectum (prank)" |
I don't know if this additional image was Side Two of the death certificate or if it was a separate page. Sometimes this supplement follows a death certificate.
In Frank's case, this supplement clarified that the rupture and hemorrhage of his intestines was caused by a prank- applying a pressure hose to his rectum.
When a death is special or unusual, a newspaper article may have been published with additional details. This would be separate from any Notice of Death or Obituary.
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| Newspaper article about the death of Frank Vanderhoof and the possible criminal action against Andrew Balla |
Atlantic City is about 130 miles from Butler, but the local paper there carried the story. This is a reminder to look far and wide for newspaper reports. The article added a second person to the incident, a "practical joker" named Andrew Balla.
Andrew was arrested for manslaughter. Another article, this time in Trenton, clarified that Frank and Andrew were coworkers. They customarily used high-pressure hoses to dust off their clothes. Details were skipped, but Frank died after Andrew "turned the blower" upon him.
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| Another newspaper article about Frank's death and Andrew's criminal charges |
What became of the case? I did not find further articles. If Andrew spent any time in jail or prison, it was not long. Two years after Frank's death, Andrew married Phoebe Haycock in 1928. Their daughter, Helen Louise, was born the following year.
In the 1930 census, Andrew and family were living in Bloomingdale. He was still employed at the rubber plant.
Andrew died in 1993 and Phoebe in 2012.
In 1957, the rubber factory burnt down, causing economic devastation to Butler.
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| Picture of the burning Pequanoc Rubber Company of Butler, New Jersey |
Family stories about this incident would have been handed down through the Vanderhoof family and the Balla family. The accuracy would have diminished over time as the story was retold anywhere from two to five generations. If anyone is a member of these branches and heard about this story, please comment.
How do you properly record a county when the location and the information on the record do not align? I am not sure.
When reviewing the death certificates from 1904 for the surname Vanderhoof, we see the record for Clarissa Vanderhoof. She died on April 7 in Mountain View. "MORRIS CO., N.J." was stamped next to this place.
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| Death certificate of Clarissa Vanderhoof, age 57 years. Father- John Wilson. Mother- Eliza A Wilson. Buried in Pompton Plains First Reformed Church Cemetery, Morris County. |
Mountain View is a section of Wayne Township, which is in Passaic County, not Morris; however, this area borders Lincoln Park, Morris County on the west.
Who stamped "Morris County" on the death certificate? Did Mountain View span both counties in 1904?
We have the same type of issue with the marriage of Clarissa and Andrew.
In 1863, Clarissa Wilson became the second wife of Andrew J Vanderhoof (1838-1919). The marriage was recorded with other marriages in Morris County, though the location of the ceremony was Bloomingdale, which is in Passaic County, though on the border with Morris.
| Ledger book of marriages and deaths in Morris County, New Jersey covering the years 1848-1867. "Book Z." Viewable at Ancestry and at the New Jersey State Archives. |
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| Map of Morris County, New Jersey 1853 |
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| Enlargement of marriage record of Nathan Courter and Martha Vanderhoof and of Andrew J Vanderhoff and Clarrisa Wilson, 1863 |
Conrad Vanderhoof (1817-1874) was maybe the final child of Jacob Vanderhoof (1772-1847) and Elizabeth Hopler (1772-1841). Or at least the last of the children who lived into adulthood.
Conrad Vanderhoof married Mary Hopler in 1841 in Morris County, New Jersey. I suspect that they were first cousins once removed on their shared Hopler line.
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| Conrad H Vanderhoof and Mary Hopler married April 29, 1841 in Morris County, New Jersey. Marriage record filed at the county level. Images available at FamilySearch |
Louisa Caroline Freeman Hickerson identified at least eleven children of Conrad and Mary born between 1842 and 1862: Ann Elizabeth, John, George, Peter, Mary, Sarah, Laura, Joseph, Ellen, Lemuel, and Frank.
| Vanderhoof book by Louisa Caroline Freeman Hickerson Excerpt of information about Conrad Vanderhoof (1817-1874) |
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| 1860 United States federal census. New Jersey, Morris County, Rockaway. Household of Conrad Vanderhoof, age 41, farmer. |
| Gravestone of Conrad Vanderhoof and Mary Hopler Rockaway Valley United Methodist Church Cemetery Boonton, Morris County, New Jersey |
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| Conrad Vanderhoof age 56 died January 1, 1874 in Denville, Morris County, New Jersey. Parents- Jacob and Elizabeth Vanderhoof. Occupation farmer. Cause of death erysipela. |
In the previous article, I mentioned that I was unsure about the life of Jacob Vanderhoof, born about 1843 to Elizabeth Cook (1803-1882) and Jacob Vanderhoof (1772-1847) in Morris County, New Jersey.
"What became of Jacob Vanderhoof, born about 1843? I am not sure as of this writing. As we have seen many times within this family, there was more than one person named Jacob Vanderhoof born in the 1840s. I will need to gather their documents before we have definitive paths."
In her book, Vanderhoof, Louisa Caroline Freeman Hickerson wrote that Jacob C Vanderhoof died June 11, 1889.
According to this death certificate, Jacob C Vanderhoff died at the Raritan Hotel in Somerset County, New Jersey. Burial was at New Cemetery in Somerville. This is now called New Somerville Cemetery on Find a Grave.
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| Jacob C Vanderhoff died Jun 11, 1889 in Raritan, Somerset County, New Jersey. Father- Jacob Vanderhoff. Mother- Elizabeth Vanderhoff. Age 46 years. Born in Denville. Buried at New Cemetery, Somerville. |
The surname was spelled Vanderhoff, not Vanderhoof. This is a variant that I see often.
Jacob's gravestone was photographed for Find A Grave. He served in the Civil War in the 7th New Jersey Infantry Company K. His middle name is "Cook" on this memorial page. I do not see his middle name spelled out in any other records.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave Private Jacob Cook VanDerHoof (1842-1889) |
The marriage of Jacob C Vanderhoof and Eliza Derland was recorded at the state level. They were married November 9, 1872 in Succasunna, Morris County. Eliza was 19; no age was given for Jacob.
| New Jersey Marriages. Book BL 1872-1873. Available on Ancestry. |
Here's why I did not initially connect this marriage record to Jacob, son of Jacob Vanderhoof and Elizabeth Cook. His parents were written as "Conrood & ___ Vanderhoof." Conrad is one of the more popular names in these Morris County branches. It would not surprise me if Jacob's middle name was Conrad.
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| Parents of Jacob C Vanderhoof and Eliza Derland from the marriage record, 1872 |
Jacob C Vanderhoof and Eliza Dorland (1853-1925) had two sons who lived to adulthood:
Wallace L Vanderhoof (1874-1961)
and
William Ward Vanderhoof (1885-1961)