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| Updated memorial page Emeline B Cook without parents |
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| Sampling of trees at Ancestry that incorrectly attribute Emeline Cook, wife of Joseph Prosser, as a daughter of Stephen Cook and Elizabeth Vanderhoof |
Growing family trees from leaves and branches. Finding lost relatives. Solving family mysteries. Concentrating in New Jersey and New York.
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| Updated memorial page Emeline B Cook without parents |
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| Sampling of trees at Ancestry that incorrectly attribute Emeline Cook, wife of Joseph Prosser, as a daughter of Stephen Cook and Elizabeth Vanderhoof |
While researching Elizabeth Vanderhoof (1799-1878) and her husband, Stephen H Cook (1797-1853), of Morris County, New Jersey, I found that someone made an error at Find A Grave.
Find A Grave is a great resource for viewing gravestones. The inscriptions can contain full names, relationships, dates, and places. The bonus, as well as the problem, is that memorial pages can be linked in relationships. Ancestry.com links hints directly to Find A Grave, making it very easy to align these relationships into family trees.
An extra daughter, Emeline, was attributed to Stephen and Elizabeth at Find A Grave.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave for Stephen H Cook (1797-1853) showing daughter Emeline |
Emeline Cook (1836-1891) was the wife of Joseph S Prosser (1832-1910). They married in Camden County, New Jersey in 1855. They lived in Camden and Gloucester Counties, which is another clue that Emeline may not have been of the Cooks of Morris County.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave for Emeline Cook (1836-1891), wife of Joseph Prosser |
New Jersey death certificates are not online. I can pick up a copy of Emeline's record on my next trip to the Archives. The names of her parents might be provided on this document.
This error may have happened because of the 1850 census. Emeline Cook, age 16, was listed in the household of Stephen Cook in Rockaway, Morris County, New Jersey.
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| 1850 United States Federal Census Rockaway Township, Morris County, New Jersey Household of Stephen Cook Next household is Richard Vanderhoof (1814-1892) and his second wife Elizabeth Cook (1810-1875) |
This Emeline was not a daughter of Stephen, but rather a daughter-in-law. She was Emeline Young (1834-1906), wife of William Henry Cook (1828-1902). A clue is that the household members are listed out of order of age: Henry Cook age 21; Emeline, age 16; Charles age 17. (Lots of information on Charles will be in a future article.)
We have a picture of Emeline Youngs. Her family photo album is preserved at the Denville Museum.
To address the error at Find A Grave, I submitted suggested edits to the memorial manager.
As I sort through the Vanderhoofs, I processed the death certificate of William H Van Derhoef. He died at age 79 years on October 9, 1943 in West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey. According to this document, his wife was Jennie Byington and his parents were John Van Derhoef and Sarah Graft. Burial was in Greenwood Cemetery in Brooklyn, New York.
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| Death certificate of William H VanDerhoef. Died October 9, 1943 in West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey. Document available through mail or in-person at the New Jersey State Archives. (New Jersey death certificates are not accessible online.) |
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| 1880 United States Federal Census Brooklyn, Kings County, New York Household of John V Vanderhoef and Sarah Ann Graff |
William was already entered at Find A Grave. I found his parents entered at Cypress Hills Cemetery in Brooklyn: John V Vanderhoef (1824-1900) and Sarah Ann Graff (1829-1919). Sarah's entry at Find A Grave currently has no year of death. Burials are searchable on the website of Cypress Hills. She was interred on December 11, 1919. She probably died in New Jersey, which has no index for deaths in 1919.
There is a problem with the Find A Grave listing for this family. John V Vanderhoef and Sarah Ann Graff were already attached to a son named William H Vanderhoef (1861-1930), buried in Green-Wood Cemetery in Brooklyn.
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| Memorial page at Find A Grave for William H Vanderhoef 1861-1930 in Green-Wood Cemetery, Brooklyn |
There are so many people named Vanderhoof or variant spellings that it is easy to mix them up. In my family tree are currently 49 people named William Vanderhoof/hoff/hoef.
The creator of William's memorial page in Green-Wood Cemetery supplied a spouse- Henrietta Dixon (1863-1908).
Marriages and deaths in New York City are digitized for these earlier years.
On the marriage record from 1882, William J Vanderhoof's father was John Vanderhoof, but his mother was Catherine Mulligan- not Sarah Ann Graff.
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| Marriage certificate side 1 William J Vanderhoof and Henrietta Dixon married April 27, 1882 in Brooklyn, New York |
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| Marriage certificate side 2 William J Vanderhoof and Henrietta Dixon married April 27, 1882 in Brooklyn, New York |
On William J's death certificate from 1930, his father was again John Vanderhoof. His mother was Elizabeth, not Catherine, but her surname remained Mulligan- not Graff.
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| Death certificate of William J Vanderhoof died January 1, 1930 in Queens, New York |
Note that the death certificate lists the place of burial as Evergreens Cemetery. This is another large cemetery in Brooklyn. Although they do not have an online index, they will confirm burials via email. Because I had precise dates of death for William J, his wife Henrietta, and their son, William, Evergreens Cemetery was able to quickly confirm that the family was buried there.
The entry on Find A Grave, in contrast, lists the place of burial as Green-Wood Cemetery.
I did request changes to the memorial page of William H Vanderhoef (1861-1930) of Green-Wood Cemetery, but they were declined.
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| Email notifying me that changes would not be made to the memorial page of William H Vanderhoef (1861-1930) |
Do not blindly rely on relationships found linked on Find A Grave, or anywhere else. View the original documents whenever possible.
Beware of blindly accepting published family trees!
Jacob Vanderhoof (1772-1847) and Ann Hopler (1772-1841) lived and died in Morris County, New Jersey. This couple produced thousands of descendants, myself included. As a consequence, they are found in lots of online family trees. Vanderhoof and variant spellings were common in New York and New Jersey in the 1700s and 1800s, resulting in many different people having similar first and last names living within miles of one another. The few written records that survive lack details that would help distinguish one person from another of the same name.
The result is lots of trees that merge different people into one, or criss-cross the lines.
As of this writing, I have not sorted all of the men named Jacob Vanderhoof. I'll produce articles as I figure out children, record sets, or locations.
A tree appeared with Jacob, Ann, and sixteen children. I explored this tree because I was curious about the sources about their daughter, Elizabeth (1799-1878). The picture for Elizabeth is that of a young woman. Elizabeth was well-past her youth when cameras and photographs were invented, so this cannot be her.
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| Tree of Jacob Vanderhoof, Ann Elizabeth Hopler, and sixteen children |
I looked at the youngest offered child, Mary, born in 1822, when her mother was fifty. The only source is another family tree. This will not suffice.
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| Source for the life of Mary Vanderhoof is another tree |
In 1848, Mary Vanderhoof and J K Odell married in Sussex County, New Jersey. This was just before state-wide registry was required; however, the event was recorded at the county level and can be viewed online. From this record we see that the bride was described as "of Wantage." This is in Sussex County, about thirty miles northwest of Rockaway Valley in Morris County, where Jacob Vanderhoof and and Ann Hopler had resided before their deaths.
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| March 30, 1848. Mr J K Odell of Hardiston to Miss Mary Vanderhoof of Wantage. Sussex County, New Jersey Marriages 1828-1853 |
On October 30, 1861 Mary Odel died in Vernon, Sussex County. This record is also available online. State-wide registration was in the form of ledger books at this time. The cause of death was consumption, or tuberculosis. Her parents were Jacob and Elizabeth Vanderhoof.
Mary Odell has a memorial page at Find A Grave, along with a photograph of the stone. She was buried at Deckertown Union Cemetery in Wantage.
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| Mary Vanderhuff Odell (1823-1861) Memorial page at Find A Grave |
The above-mentioned sources don't help us definitively rule Mary in or out as a daughter of Jacob Vanderhoof and Ann Hopler. Without visiting this cemetery in person, we can check for other Vanderhoofs buried there.
We find Jacob A Vanderhuff (1791-1870) and Elizabeth Swan (1793-1870) listed in the same cemetery as Mary. They seem more likely to be her parents. (Yes, Mary is listed as their daughter at Find A Grave. This is because I requested this change after finding and reviewing documents.)
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| Jacob A Vanderhuff (1791-1870) Memorial page at Find A Grave |
The will of Jacob A Vanderhuff is viewable online. He left his estate to his living children and to three of his grandchildren, "children of John K Odell and my daughter Mary, now deceased."
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| Will of Jacob A Vanderhuff of Vernon, Sussex County, New Jersey. Proved August 17, 1870. |
This helps chip away at one bit of inaccuracy in the Vanderhoof tree. More to come.
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| Obituary of Anna Di Agostino, born Picone. May 8, 1958. Newark Star Ledger newspaper. |
| Picture taken standing in Section V and the Parkway Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, Newark, New Jersey |
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| Historical photograph of the Garden State Parkway. This section lies in Newark, New Jersey. The Parkway does not run through West Orange. |
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| Same view of the Parkway and Holy Sepulchre Cemetery modern-day |
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| Picture of gravestone for William Lowry Lyman, Jr Montclair Public Library Online Photo Collection https://www.digifind-it.com/montclair/pages/P3642.php |
While scrolling through the online collections of the Montclair Public Library (Essex County, New Jersey), I found a picture of the gravestone for William Lowry Lyman, Jr. No details, such as a cemetery, were provided.
The inscription:IN LOVING MEMORY OFWILLIAM LOWRY LYMAN JRCADET MIDSHIPMAN U.S. M.M.MARCH 25, 1923 - JULY 13, 1943KILLED IN THE INVASION OF SICILY
The Lyman family plot is in Mount Hebron Cemetery in Montclair.
The stone from the photograph was in this plot. It is a flat stone, still fully readable.
| See William's entry on Find A Grave, linking his family |
William registered for the draft on June 30, 1942 in Montclair. He was 19 years old. (You can view these cards in Ancestry.com's collection, United States World War II Draft Cards Young Men, 1940-1947.)
The first article I found about William appeared in the Montclair Times on September 9, 1943. He was reported as Missing in Action. He was a cadet in the Merchant Marines. His ship was sunk during the Invasion of Sicily. His picture was printed next to the article.
One November 11 (Veterans Day), William was listed as "missing."
For Decoration Day (now known better as Memorial Day) of 1944, May 25, William was listed among those dead from World War II.
I photographed the gravestone of Lucie Skehan McCrea (1893-1920) for upload to Find A Grave.
| Mount Hebron Cemetery Montclair, New Jersey |
Lucie died in Pelham, Westchester County, New York. These indexes are online. The actual death certificates, however, can only be ordered through the New York State Department of Health for $22.
Lucie was enumerated in the 1920 census in Pelham with her husband, Daniel McCrea (1883-1936).
Newspaper articles popped up, so I took a look.
Lucie died very early in the year- January 19, 1920. So I went back and looked at the date on the census.
These census entries were recorded the day Lucie died! Was she at home when the census taker arrived? Was she ill at the time?
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| Nottingham is probably in Mercer County today. |